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Attachment difficulty

One of the hardest thing to do is to work without attachment. We are attached to everything regardless of their existence in nature. Even the things that have no life form sometimes makes us emotionally touched. I had experience of hearing from people saying that their favourite tv show ended and they fell like drained. Although they were aware about its fictional side, they are attached and highly expressive. So there is nothing to wonder in case of things with life beat. There happens attachment at its peak. We have also seen people with far more live to their electronic gadgets than any other thing. They never let go of their gadget and sometimes decided to keep it for ever. The worse thing happening from the last couple of months was the attachment to the intangible assets. It is getting auctioned like the same real tangible product. The technology that make it happen is Blockchain through NFTs. Some thinkers are also afraid of this attachment might lead to a cultural collapse w

Attachment and decisions

 Attachment creates problems. The reason we feel lonely whenever outside of our comfort zone is the experience we are going through is new. When we go through something that we never went through before, we feel a kind of uncomfortableness. This uncomfortableness is resulting in the creation of new brain patterns. Brains neuron activates when we go through something new. The existing pattern when finds it difficult to work with. This is the exact reason why while the new patterns form, we feel insecure and frustrated. Sometimes it creates fear. The brain nature of fight or flee comes to action when we put ourselves in fear. Fear most of the time creates a fleeing sensation than fighting. Because fleeing is less risky than fighting. Your life is guaranteed when you flee. But fighting takes a lot of effort that maintains the required outcome. So if fighting is not a desirable option, the fleeing is the only left one. That is why we see some people easily setting their presence in the new