Influence of core beliefs

This is very interesting to look at the life of people and their belief in accordance. They are related very much. In fact the total identity can be extracted from their belief. We can articulate the kids likes bullying believes that he can laugh by hurting others. Beliefs are certain. It is correlated and confused with the truth. Since belief is what complied with the truth, it is robust as truth. A kid bullying his mates feels absolute fun and fulfilment believing unconsciously the beliefs are getting implied. Since most of the time none try to alter their thought. No one actually cares the street wicked children while their parents keep fed them with wicked lulls. Some of these kids even miss proper parenting. But the one getting bullied gets a great attention from their parents. And that is why they are getting bullied. These kids believe that the way to get fun is through making friends, not the otherwise. This single belief have the capability to draw the entire graph. We can simply observe and can plot it. Because these beliefs are ingrained at the most premature age, it would stand forever. Even if he changes is whole belief gradually by mentoring, that single tiny belief nailed at the bottom resists him and frustrates him more often. Change is really hard. Once accepted, it is difficult it replace and easy to advance. Even if you don’t try to advance, it does by its own. That’s a self feeding mechanism. Work and energy involves only when you try to change it. Advancing is automatic if it was planted in the vacuum.

By keeping a belief which results in bad consequences results in offering resistance even to an idea which is about to plant in vacuum that is improving. The mechanism is constantly in exposure with what’s lies the deep beneath. The younger the person, the better he will be fed with right stuffs.

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