You can't sell it to your family

It's been around for centuries that you can't bribe or monetize your family. Not a tiny family with 4 members, but a larger one, whatever the number might that be. It's is common. The root lies in the DNA. This routine successfully survived millennials. This starts from caveman times where we were first found to be living together and forming tribes. One of the fascinating thing about tribe which is so relevant even today is that the security it provides. Security through food,shelter finance, companionship and learning. A member of the tribe has the rights to have this. This must be done without expecting anything in return. This is not reciprocatory. Once you barter, then the tribe weakens. In a tribe you are not allowed to trade. With the progress of the evolution, people started gathering more information which resulted in the rise of new beliefs. Believes constructed new tribes of new people or with existing ones. It started to split in a random way. It is still. Inorder to fix this detouring crisis, members concluded to provide the needs to see other tribes as other. As competitors. If they bring something to their tribe, we too have to. If not there is a chance for the collapse which no one wants. You can speak to other tribes, you can hypnotize them or dumb them. If it's for your tribe, then do not seek permission. 'Just do it' it goes. But you are not allowed to perform any of these gross activities to your tribe, your family. If you are to, then you are a traitor. You don't belong here. You deserve the worst punishment. Centuries back people were executed for the trachery they did to the native tribe. This is strictly unethical now even if you want to.

The relevance of keeping filthy trading at bay is largely influential for the tribe existance. Because the new form of wickedness or betrayal are selling and marketing. You cannot bargain with members. Don't play the reciprocatory game. You need not not to bring gifts for a party. If you repay the invitation with money worth thing. You are not in the tribe. You can't sell to your family and tribe. Because most of the time selling involves faking. Because they are your tribe members, they readily accepts what you have to offer. Go next time, they refuse. Because you are not his family anymore. You broke the law. Now you are seles person to their eyes.

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