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Spotting the unimportant

 

As a part of improving our life we do multiple things. How much we got from those activities are the key way to assess the quality. Attending sessions, reading books and weekly meetings are the prime examples. We cannot say that the assessment we did are exactly a true inspection. It is also the product of the quality of our brain. Everyone is provided with a good normal brain, but the years of molding is what makes the difference. This determines the perception and intuition. Both these plays a major role in determining the future ahead. It decides the importance and non-importance.

   Whenever we were presented with an opportunity, the decisions are totally controlled by the intuition. The major difference in selecting a book to read is a prime example. And it forges the mindset. So the people with different mindset attracts different genres. When someone accidently reaches a webinar, which is not his genre, he often gets frustrated and understand nothing. Most of the time when people attend a session which he just got introduced at, they show a tendency to leave ASAP. We cannot blame them at their behavior. The reason they do so is because of the things they went so.

It doesn’t mean that we cannot let people of different genre to expose to new things. The only thing that keeps the resistance showing up is the gap. The gap that could be filled by base level understanding. Without the base we cannot master anything. Coaching is meant to master whatever the subject. They certainly advertise with a title ‘also for beginners’. Why?. They prioritized money more than result. If he emphasizes result, he shouldn’t welcome the babies. It is our responsibility to end upon the right activities. Spending the time without result is a waste. We went through it a lot of times. Many of us can relate this with global phenomenon of educational institution. Honestly speaking, many of the students getting graduated from here often admits that is a total waste of time. So it is important to find time worthy and time wasting activities. Because these are the flipsides of a coin.

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The mental cage that is created by the society from ever since we came across the life will get stronger with our inability to face the reality itself. Not the reality that is implied by the perception that is created by the experience we had from birth till now. The irony is that we were rarely conscious about what happened in the past and how it forged the inner self. But by the time we get to know what had happened to us, we might have already in a fucked up state. The more aged we are, the more we are fucked by the society. It might terrify a lot of people. And those who finds the truth often do the surface level solution shits and ends up being worser than before. The solution happens when we fix the deep root cause. It must be more psychological than surface scratch.

Managing things

The benefits of doing things on our own must be overrated. The reason is once it is overrated, it will grab the attention of a lot of people who ignore it. This is the process of setting up the foundation of everyday life. Knowing how to prioritize our day is a skill that is worth pursuing.

Finding solutions

How we see problems is the reason our solution is the way it is. We can confront a problem in a variety of ways. either we could solve it permanently or we could find a temporary one for instant relief. but the outcome is what often matters. The permanent solution leads to new outcomes, new opportunities, and therefore a new better problem. But the temporary comes with the same old problems every time.

Thoughts on laziness

The reason for our laziness and procrastination is not that we weren't motivated, it is that we think we have more time than we think. We live in a way such that we won't die. Each and every moment we are moving towards death. We barely notice ourselves getting older and then suddenly we find ourselves passed decades without doing anything special or gaining the experience. Experience is the only way to make life favorable. An experience like this comes from facing fear and reflecting upon that. Facing the fear requires you to be attentive and not be idle

Preparing for the future

If you don't prepare your kid for the worst, he would probably suffer in the time ahead. The best and most practiced way is that making them naive and not agressive. A kid refraining from a aggressive move always limit himself to the situation that demands courage. And the irony is, anything worth pursuing requires courage.

Lesson from experience

Most of the learnings come from experience and one should focus on gaining experience than pleasuring ourselves in the unrealistic world of social media and pornography. Reflecting upon the experience is the greatest lesson we can ever learn from life. Missing this opportunity is a blunder.

Why should you own your method?

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Core learning

Surface level learning a waste of time. Not entirely, but to a large extent it is wastee. Of learning doesn't helps in making better choices. That shouldn't be considered as learning in the first place.

Trusting the guts

 Following the guts feels like a task that is impossible to crack. But once we follow our intuition and persistently find the right, it always allows us to create the happiness and satisfaction we wish for. There will be the process of trial and error, but it is worth giving it.