Addiction paralyse

Abstaining from addiction can be considered as a period of purification. Whatever we think we are addicted will make our mind and physique derail. It can cause serious problems. Sometimes to those around us. When we are addicted to anything, it is clearly visible in our nature. Everything we did in the past is no longer the way we do new things. It is associated with the new personality. Because addiction alter the personality. There are lot of cause for being addicted. One of them is the indiscipline. Whenever something that is so momentarily stimulus, we get to go often. Our brain craves to take a taste more often and we lose control of ourselves. This might have happened to anyone who is undisciplined. Unfortunately, most of us grown up in indiscipline. Indiscipline compounds and makes it harder to get disciplined after few years. That is why old peoples are more resistance towards the change. The brain is already molded. The least they can do is to try. The possibility of getting success there is minute and that kills the hope. Here hope is important as having a good habit. Most people, when realize that they are addicted wants to change. But the level of cross bars before them makes it harder. And those who try harder wins.

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Business asteroids

Several million years ago asteroid in a size larger than the moon hit the earth and wiped most of the species leaving the dust particles to afloat. Since then, asteroid is identified as mostly a negative thing. In fact, many historians believe that that was the turning point to the second life of the planet. Generally, we could see people referring asteroid as capable of destroying anything. This true, but it is not complete. The sentence only fulfills the moral meaning when we add “and bringing the new world of new opportunities”. We would be survived if it hadn’t happened amid the dinosaurs. We must have gone extinct long before. It is common to assign asteroid anything that is about to wipe out the old and bring the new. The term Business asteroid got popular in the last two decades. Reason: we barely saw anything before. Like an actual asteroid it is perceived as wrong at its entry. Many people said it would not be a problem for them. Some sided with ´this i...

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