Treating ourselves as someone who is responsible for our attention makes a lot of difference than treating ourselves as like we treated before. When people get miserable, they neglect themselves and simultaneously they empathize people around them for their misfortunes and failures. But the irony here is that both are equally miserable. Then why is that we empathize her self than caring for ourselves. Although we might stumble upon the vague reply, that moment might change our lives. We must give priority and care of ourselves as much as we give to those around us.
Too much focused on work or anything is not good at all. Not for both personal and professional. Yet we repeat the same pattern. Insanely focused in a work could bring better results. But these might lead to filter out the things we think is not at all important. But it turns out that is wrong. Often the things we wish could have were the things we merely ignored. Relationship is an example. Relationship with children and spouse often get cold when obsessed with way too much work. It is very much easy to eliminate the non essential and focus on what's important. But as the life progresses, most people realise that is not true. Giving time to nurture the relations are important as much as finishing the task. In the end all that matters is how well the life gets better. Just merely by observing the things that we thought as irrelevant may seems like a great choice to have. You might rethink and crafts the better one.
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