Treating ourselves as someone who is responsible for our attention makes a lot of difference than treating ourselves as like we treated before. When people get miserable, they neglect themselves and simultaneously they empathize people around them for their misfortunes and failures. But the irony here is that both are equally miserable. Then why is that we empathize her self than caring for ourselves. Although we might stumble upon the vague reply, that moment might change our lives. We must give priority and care of ourselves as much as we give to those around us.
There are two ways you can look at it. one is dangerous to yourself and the second is to others. In both cases, the only difference is where the fear is directed. Because with fear, you can do many things and make people do things for you. but once the fear is gone, then you won't necessarily get the desired outcome. Fear is only a motivator. It won't stay for long. Either you must increase the fear or find an alternative means.
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