Mirroring is important when it comes to attraction. People always get attracted to individuals with the same ideology and beliefs. That is how organizations are formed. We feel secure and comfortable sharing our thoughts and secrets with those who think and do things in our way. Understanding this could be a game changer in forming relations. That is why people working in sales and those who deal with customers undergo training in mirroring their personality and emotions. It really works. When we see a stranger and engage in a conversation, we do analyze their personality unconsciously and act in accordance with that. Long hours of conversation happens when we find a person with our belief and mindset.
Getting out of the matrix is an easy part. All you have to do is analyse the person who has opposite views than yours and try to learn from them as much as you can. What is the hardest part is to realise that you are in a matrix. This matrix is a lot more similar to a prison. The difference is that you know you are in a prison when you are in a prison, but you don't even know there exist a matrix when you are in a matrix. One is visible and the other is not. The only way to realise your position is to ask questions about everything everytime and never stop the process until you get the answer that satisfies you.
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