Expecting life to be mean has actual benefits. The Stoics alway starts their day by imagining the worst thing that could happen. It prepares them to become more resistant and prepared. Once it is clear that worst things are ahead, then we won't get panic when it hits us.
There are two ways you can look at it. one is dangerous to yourself and the second is to others. In both cases, the only difference is where the fear is directed. Because with fear, you can do many things and make people do things for you. but once the fear is gone, then you won't necessarily get the desired outcome. Fear is only a motivator. It won't stay for long. Either you must increase the fear or find an alternative means.
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