Where most people fall

What’s more difficult in a process of formation is the initial part. Not only at the very beginning stage where everything is completely unknown and averse. Because the same concept of brains uncomfortableness with change. But when we undergo change for a reasonable amount of time, it becomes a habit. Although these habits are formed by consistent effort, it sometimes feels like in vane. Because once we start anything new it will go through a series of process. The part od process is same for everything, but the time for which it to pass differs dramatically.

After starting something new the first few attempts might be interesting due to the curiosity involved. Then the curiosity decays with the time and only those who started in search meaning survive the part. Here we can spot the people with an attitude to learn. They must have found something purposeful enough to keep them go further. After surviving the dip they will go forward with past sour experiences. They know where people will fall and how the motivation ceases over time.

Bit it takes a lot of effort to make it to the dip. And dip is even harder place where only very few people finds it worthy of time and effort.

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Reprogramming the mind

The mental cage that is created by the society from ever since we came across the life will get stronger with our inability to face the reality itself. Not the reality that is implied by the perception that is created by the experience we had from birth till now. The irony is that we were rarely conscious about what happened in the past and how it forged the inner self. But by the time we get to know what had happened to us, we might have already in a fucked up state. The more aged we are, the more we are fucked by the society. It might terrify a lot of people. And those who finds the truth often do the surface level solution shits and ends up being worser than before. The solution happens when we fix the deep root cause. It must be more psychological than surface scratch.

Managing things

The benefits of doing things on our own must be overrated. The reason is once it is overrated, it will grab the attention of a lot of people who ignore it. This is the process of setting up the foundation of everyday life. Knowing how to prioritize our day is a skill that is worth pursuing.

Preparing for the future

If you don't prepare your kid for the worst, he would probably suffer in the time ahead. The best and most practiced way is that making them naive and not agressive. A kid refraining from a aggressive move always limit himself to the situation that demands courage. And the irony is, anything worth pursuing requires courage.

Lesson from experience

Most of the learnings come from experience and one should focus on gaining experience than pleasuring ourselves in the unrealistic world of social media and pornography. Reflecting upon the experience is the greatest lesson we can ever learn from life. Missing this opportunity is a blunder.

Core learning

Surface level learning a waste of time. Not entirely, but to a large extent it is wastee. Of learning doesn't helps in making better choices. That shouldn't be considered as learning in the first place.

Career mistakes

Career mistakes although it seems to be trivial at the moment, it turns everything around. The effect is only visible after couple of years. The only thing that those decision leave you with is to regret. Career mistakes happens to everyone, but it should not happen because of laziness and procrastination which is absolutely innour control.

Finding solutions

How we see problems is the reason our solution is the way it is. We can confront a problem in a variety of ways. either we could solve it permanently or we could find a temporary one for instant relief. but the outcome is what often matters. The permanent solution leads to new outcomes, new opportunities, and therefore a new better problem. But the temporary comes with the same old problems every time.

Thoughts on laziness

The reason for our laziness and procrastination is not that we weren't motivated, it is that we think we have more time than we think. We live in a way such that we won't die. Each and every moment we are moving towards death. We barely notice ourselves getting older and then suddenly we find ourselves passed decades without doing anything special or gaining the experience. Experience is the only way to make life favorable. An experience like this comes from facing fear and reflecting upon that. Facing the fear requires you to be attentive and not be idle

Overcoming the addiction

Overcoming an addiction needs consistent and relentless effort. Once we surpass this moutain there are huge rewards waiting other side.

The toothbrush test

To release a product that is worthy of shipping or an idea that is worthy of spreading, it must be of elegant use. No product reigns the market if it is for one time use. We buy products for using more than once. All the things that went revolutionary can be of multiple use or can be used multiple times. There is one test that most of the entrepreneurs use when the launch an idea or company based on that, it is famously known as the Toothbrush test . This a funny yet powerful test that determines whether the product can be used more than once (keeping in mind that people do brush twice or even thrice a day). If it does it is worthy of launching and investing. All the now products are based on this simple test. People behind that do make sure that it went through toothbrushing process . We can see lot of new products on the market are toothbrushing product. Because we like to have a product which is of multiple use. That saves money and time. People do consider these t...

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