Charming qualities

We say someone as charming person if we see a particular trait that the majority lacks. Something which posses a charismatic effect. It may be boldness, fearlessness, eloquency, calmness or anything that the mob aspires, but few have. Having this ability is an advantage both for a leader and those who wishes to lead.

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Beware not to be fraud

Being cheated is common. We get cheated most of the time. Sometimes the effect is large. Only then we realise that we are being cheated. Cheating comes from false beliefs. We believe in the things that we thought to be the truth, at least we accepted as truth. By giving us the false information they are rectifying the probability of manipulation. It's easier to get convinced in this time. There is no scarcity for information. I mean made up false information. They are very likely to get hooked and there is plenty of them in the market. Only thing left to the marketers is to pick one and throw it in the face. You are most likely to engulf. Because the rule book say so, you must do so. You cannot turn your your face when you are nicely getting manipulated, the rule books say. Even the craftsman man who designed these b.s rule must've been frustrated by consequence of these rules made to the folks. They must have thought someone someday would replace it instead of blindly pursuing...

Observation is the key

Too much focused on work or anything is not good at all. Not for both personal and professional. Yet we repeat the same pattern. Insanely focused in a work could bring better results. But these might lead to filter out the things we think is not at all important. But it turns out that is wrong. Often the things we wish could have were the things we merely ignored. Relationship is an example. Relationship with children and spouse often get cold when obsessed with way too much work. It is very much easy to eliminate the non essential and focus on what's important. But as the life progresses, most people realise that is not true. Giving time to nurture the relations are important as much as finishing the task. In the end all that matters is how well the life gets better. Just merely by observing the things that we thought as irrelevant may seems like a great choice to have. You might rethink and crafts the better one.

Mindset matters

The first mover advantage maybe a myth like MySpace. It is not necessary to have a first mover advantage, but it may do good if managed correctly. In the world of crypto we could see Bitcoin reigning over a decade as the leading coin. It got its first mover advantage and it is way ahead than other altcoins. But does it means it will lead forever ? Not really. I’m case of Amazon the first mover advantage was a great benefit. It is not that because of Amazon being the first to deliver goods through online, it is the ever growth mindset of Jeff Bezos. Like in case of any other thing, the important factor is not the advantage, but the mindset that drives it behind. Last day I wrote about having a progressive mindset. But when it comes to BTC, the driver behind it is clearly absent. Its first mover advantage is getting it to the top, but as soon as when one person with growth mindset comes with an equivalent product (which already happened), the first mover advantage may slay. ...

Surroundings and influence

Most people who are brilliant enough let themselves to suffer only because oh their lack of courage. They were well equipped and learned, yet they find themselves stumbling upon when faced with an adversity. They weren’t really shy, they are afraid of embarrassment. What would happen if something happens always make them uncomfortable. It is not only the failure that makes them sweat, success too. They don’t know what to do when confronted with their peers, these people sweats a lot. The reason these people fell into these category isn’t their fault. Not technically, but yes they chose it. But by doing a simple analysis we can conclude that the environment that they were in contributed a better part. But these environment doesn’t create itself. Keeping in mind it could be again concluded as ancestral influence . That is much powerful. Even people with talent feels the resistance. What about this resistance is it keeps the action at bay and paves a great way to live the unlived li...

Procrastination and regret

What happens when you don’t do things that you have to do? That is a million-dollar question. Most of the time we can see this occurrence in our life multiple times. It is a reality and we tend to sway towards it. It creates a lot of problems. This is due to procrastination, the worst of worst. It is a common behavior found among all human beings. Some people are the masters of it and others are the defendants. You don’t have to work to become a master of procrastination. All you have to do is nothing. Literally nothing in particular. Its effect is big in both ways. For a defender he turns and fights. Here the chance is a higher probability of winning outcome. Those are the people stand top in the world. All the things that were achieved throughout history were, somehow procrastination defied action. The same is absolutely true for procrastinators. They don’t do the things that needed to be done and for the time later, they regret it the most. All the things that happened in...

Saying NO is an art

Saying that you don’t like is often difficult. Especially when we need to say to our friends. One of thing that lurks behind this faking is the fear of misinterpretation. We say what we meant to say, but they take what they take. Most oftentimes we mean no offense, but the scenario makes it worse. We say most politely that “ I’m grateful for your offer, but I don’t do it “ through a single NO. But sometimes they take it as regarding. They hear something like “ I don’t want your shit “. We can read it from their face all the frustration and indignation ,even when displaying fake smiles. If that’s the case, then we conclude that NO is getting us and our relationship ripped. What we don’t realize is that the after effect of it, such as we blaming them for the entire thing. Here things get even worse and may lead to the demise of the relationship. Once you become comfortable with saying “no”, then it becomes easy to sort out the unimportant from important. Your priorities become explicit. ...

Raise your hand

The raise your hand strategy is well-known and practiced widely by people who do talking from any field. It is a simple and a call to action strategy. What it does is helps to engage people, more precisely, the audience with whoever giving the talk. We can call him the controller. He controls the crowd and their emotions. A well-practiced and experienced man can make people laugh or cry when he wants. That’s why they often let people laugh at the beginning by cracking some old jokes and making them emotionally attached to the end. To actively engage a group of people is difficult than an individual. Because attention diversifies and an individual in the audience gets a fraction of it. So, here the possibility is to make them concentrated, fully engaged. Everyone knows that when the number of people increases, the effect of it which it reaches fades. As a result, the core intention of spreading the notion becomes vain....

One click away from a wave

Rise of celebs and social media influencers are peaking everyday. Now wonder tomorrow by a sudden phenomenon of a viral video you might get a celebrity status. It is the connectedness of people by ease with the help of technology that is responsible for this. Responsible might be a hard word ,a perfect replaceable one will be fortunate. We are fortunate enough to be born in this time as humans,can you imagine being born as a tree in this century. The power of technology is at the stage of exploding. People used to say about making a fortune in stock market and oil industries earlier, but the tone is veered to the phrase " Let me try my fortune in instagram". Weird! . But this thing made so much difference in the old dusty patterns of thinking. It convinced most of the youngsters that they are something truly magnificent since their last video 100 more views than the previous one. And the fools, they believed. They changed their whole routine. Since they are convinced by this...

It's not chef vs cook, it's chef creates cook

There is hardwork, diligence,focus and behind success. It might be a successful person or a product. People crafts successful stories with these elements. I mean how can there be a winning story without them. The hardness in choosing the career also intensely extends to pursue them. There are plenty of career to choose them. The more options we have, the more confused we are. You cannot implement the same philosophy of choose what tastes better specifically here. There are millions and you would waste your entire life chasing one after another. The sooner we find it, the better. It's important to get informed about many before the selection, but at the risk of increasing confusion. Well after all those procedures, you'll end up in a career that will or will not suites you. Hope for the best. If it suits you'll be a successful person. You've chose the right path. Be ready to spread the words of wisdom. You chose the opposite of what the mediocre wants you to be. But is t...

Why not go crazy ?

It is true that the greater number of herds don’t dare to dream billions. Or then pursuing what they dreamt of. And some even drop the dreams thinking why dream when not capable. This is common and we see everywhere. At least we must’ve witnessed by ourselves. These are the mediocre people who are afraid of dreaming. They offer countless resistance to themselves and others pulling both down to mud. They create a negative energy sucking atmosphere. If you’re lucky enough to be born in this drowsing vibrating field, you are probably f*cked . Unfortunately there isn’t any society or tribe there exists where all you have to do is to enter and rest will manifest. No it does not exist. You must create your own environment. Which is not that easy. The difficulty in spotting someone who dares to sacrifice his possession to achieve the dream keeps most of the explorers in frustration. The reason these indispensable are rare because they defy the society (or vice versa). The kids growing up in a...

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