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Expressive tendency

People express when they feel like they are safe among the peers. It is a trust factor. This trust factor can be developed through mutual understanding. When a group of stranger collabs and start to express the embarrassing truth, individuals within the peers develops the tendency to vomit the dirty truths. This is like a chain reaction, the more people express, the trust gets stronger and stronger.  

Traveling

Traveling may be expensive, but it offers a lot of exploration. We often tend to backnoff from travelling due to tightening money. Travelling should not be neglected. It gives us plenty of experiences and memories.

Caring for ourselves

Treating ourselves as someone who is responsible for our attention makes a lot of difference than treating ourselves as like we treated before. When people get miserable, they neglect themselves and simultaneously they empathize people around them for their misfortunes and failures. But the irony here is that both are equally miserable. Then why is that we empathize her self than caring for ourselves. Although we might stumble upon the vague reply, that moment might change our lives. We must give priority and care of ourselves as much as we give to those around us.

True world

It takes years to find out the world we live in is the actual creation of ourselves. We cannot become disidentified with the world unless we put the effort. People complain because of the inability to think independently. Of course, it can be taken in to consideration, but only when we initiate the process with small and consistent steps we can think better.  But it takes tremendous effort to think independently. That is why there is scarcity for such kind of people. Those who brag themselves as independent thinkers are actually not.

Prioritizing the day

Prioritizing the day and doing the most important thing as soon will leave the rest of the day radiant. Once we complete the essential tasks at hand, we feel the sense of satisfaction and stay inspired throughout the day. Even the mundane task might become interesting. People categorize their schedule based on their lifestyle, and is different for different people.

Death reminder

Constantly reminding of death is a great filter tonsort outnthe important decision in life. But what people do instead is they act like they live forever. Once we get alerted by the death, we would make more wiser decision.

Using adversity for our advantage

The reason many people suffer lately in life due to the fear of being harmful things and events are mainly due to fucked up childhood. Children bought with very little adverse effect often struggle in life due to their inability in standing up after a defeat. These children's are more likely to get bullied. Once they found themselves unresponsive against the bullies, they intend to go a more easy path where they no longer have to face the adversity. When they grow up, they keep a low profile and struggle to socialize, make friends and fearful amid mobs. These are the people who will easily get sick and depressed, more fragile towards heart attack and sucks in relationship. The point here is that adversities have this amazing power to build a tough character and robust mindset. Instead of grieving after a problem, let us confront and grow.

Emotional scars

It is important to have emotional scars. Once you're hit so badly emotionally, your mind reacts in such a way that of the experience it had. By exposing ourselves to hard experiences, we could constantly make our mind more rigid, capable of facing hard problems. The sooner we get there, the better the life experience will be.

Emotional than logical

Humans are always influenced by emotions than logic. That is why we see people getting attracted to things they feel emotionally tantalizing. A person with emotional intelligence will have a superior advantage over others. That is why there is scarcity in 'leaders' everywhere.

Revolutionary trait

Revolution withstands with actions that are louder than words. Revolution always have these 3 things in common: 1. Goal 2. Action plan  3. An initiative The goal could be created by intense study and observation along with discussion around the table. The action plan could be prepared by the revolutionary mind when coalition occurs. But the initiative would only be carried by the revolutionaries. These are the people who think that their ideas are greater than their life. They know change is inevitable and even sacrifice their lives to robust the revolution.

Truth saving life

Telling truth somehow or another saves our life. Sometimes it is very hard to say the integral part because of the indignation society throw off. But what truth does is that it refreshes the adverse situation and make it satisfactory to congest. It always saves us from great traps.

Focus on the fundamentals

Panic selling the cause of loss. If we invest in a very good company with strong fundamentals and a leading player in the growing industry, there is no point in worrying about the correctionms that the market gives. Market always corrects if the valuations are in a state of bubble. You should be focusing on companies that are fundamentally good.

Gamblers fallacy

Gamblers fallacy can be observed anywhere. That is how the brain is designed, to gamble. If we gamble and make profits, we become greedy and play further. Same with when we lose money, we play further to revive the money disappeared. It is important to know the concept because we fell many times.

Reprogramming the mind

The mental cage that is created by the society from ever since we came across the life will get stronger with our inability to face the reality itself. Not the reality that is implied by the perception that is created by the experience we had from birth till now. The irony is that we were rarely conscious about what happened in the past and how it forged the inner self. But by the time we get to know what had happened to us, we might have already in a fucked up state. The more aged we are, the more we are fucked by the society. It might terrify a lot of people. And those who finds the truth often do the surface level solution shits and ends up being worser than before. The solution happens when we fix the deep root cause. It must be more psychological than surface scratch.

Practical usecase

What finds easy on paper is hard in real. We can actually make an attribution to the theories that we learn from books and other sources, but to imply we must rely on the odd behaviors that are lurking inside. The sooner we act upon the ideology that we were subscribed to, the better.  With time the laziness will get mustered and numbs all the positive behavior leaving us immersed in depression. The solution although it looks easy on paper, it is much harder to implement. The mental restrain will lurk there forever until we act upon them. In such cases of implementation, we must not let ourselves think wider because mind will create falsified reality that will hook us in the fear land.